I'm pretty excited as this guy seems quite substantial, although I've met him through Tinder (this app has some intense negative social connotations to it). He's made no suggestive sexual comments but has been super sweet with his compliments in what seems to be genuine and has a heightened appreciation for concern that is directed to him. He has it together but is not loaded. He seems to work hard for what he wants and is not privileged enough to coast through life - a benefit I feel we have in common. Best of all, he is striving to make himself better through over all self improvement physically and intellectually. He also has a background in social work which I feel gives us something else in common. I'm trying not to build him up here but just drawing the commonalities so as to point out the reasons behind my date choices. It's never wealth or just appearance that is the deciding factor for who I date, which I am learning is contrary to most girls I've talked to in Vancouver. The substance of conversations and shared interests commonalities that may shape our perspective is something that I look for when dating and of course attraction is essential.
Fingers crossed!!
